After I earned my Bachelor of Commerce in Marketing Management from Ryerson University in 2014, I pursued an administrative career in the Canadian public service. Within the first six weeks of my first contract, a co-worker sexually assaulted me on our drive home.
As the traumatic symptoms began to manifest having to see him in the workplace every day, I had no other choice than to seek help from my managers and reported him. You would think that the government would address sexual assault swiftly and appropriately - I thought so but was proven terribly wrong. My managers’ inadequate and unjust response was the jumping off point for my activism.
My career as a freelance writer began in 2015 at an independent publication named Femsplain, where I was a contributing author and editor. Since then, I’ve been published by outlets such as VICE Canada, Playboy, and Bitch Magazine. I’m currently working on a memoir, represented by Claire Draper of The Bent Agency.
In 2017, I went viral for bringing light to Teen Vogue’s frequent exploitation of marginalized freelance writers, and spoke about it at length on CANADALAND’s podcast. I also have a small feature in Slut or Nut: Diary of a Rape Trial, a documentary directed by Kelly Showker, starring Toronto activist Mandi Gray. You might also know me as the woman who got doxxed for dragging Ariana Grande on Twitter when she tweeted about “them blogs.”
Through my work as a journalist pursuing justice through administrative procedures, I transform my trauma into positive systemic change. I’m fiercely passionate about showing other survivors/victims that they’re not alone, and I’m dedicated to fostering empathy and compassion in Western culture to prevent and eradicate sexual violence on a grassroots level. I’m currently on the Board of the Toronto Rape Crisis Centre/Multicultural Women Against Rape, where I started as a Crisis Line Counsellor.
When I’m not writing or reading, I practice and teach yin yoga. Developing my spirituality has been a huge part of my healing process, and I offer short tarot readings meant to empower clients to become their best, most brilliant selves. I’m the mother of two cats, Daisy and Mango. They are the lights of my life.